20 and pregnant.

soo, i'm just doing this because my life has become a great big drama fest.

a few weeks ago during spring break, right after my ex broke up with me because he couldn't picture us having a future & started to see another girl (when we were together), i took a pregnancy test. i didn't think i was pregnant; i took it because my friend missed her period and wanted to take one. i was there for her support.. but it turned out, i'm the pregnant one.

my ex and i have been trying to work things out. we had been on good terms for a day before i found out i was pregnant. he was supportive and we both took action right away. that other girl was still in the picture though, and even though i wasn't making him be with me, i asked if he would pay attention to having our baby and not focus on new relationships. the nurses, social workers, and of course the families all thought that wasn't much to ask. he agreed to stop talking to her. few days later, i caught him in a lie and he was at a basketball game with this girl. after a ton of yelling and fighting, things got solved once again. he said he wanted to try to get back to normal (like we're dating again).

that leads to my next problem. everything was perfect again.. and then bam. adoption. my family and i have talked and made a throughout plan. we are financially set and are ready for the responsibilies of our baby. on the other side, his family does not agree. the only solution in their eyes is adoption because we aren't married.

he's told me that i'm not thinking spiritually, that i'm only thinking about myself and i'm totally wrong. we haven't talked for a day and i know it sounds like i'm being dramatic, but with my hormones flying everywhere, i just can't take all of this.. i am NOT a terrible person. of course i know this isn't going to be a walk in the park! this isn't what i planned nor the ideal situation. but i am able to deal with it and plan my life accordingly.

i am very happy that God has blessed me with such a miracle though and i'm just trying to let go and let him handle my life 
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Comments (1)

  1. serectgirl28

    Don’t let his family make u do something u don’t want to do because u will regert it. U have family on your side and thats great. God has givien u a miracle and u will be able to handle it. As far as him as much as I hate to say this because I have been through this I would say forget his ass and just worry about u and your baby. May god be with u and that sweet baby

    March 23, 2010
  2. starlight828

    Keep the baby.. he/she is a blessing.. and one day you will see the goodness that you did. May God bless you, your family and your baby with all the goodness.

    March 24, 2010
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